Tuesday, April 07, 2015

My 13 Year Marriage is Over...

Part of me is still in shock and it has been over a month since it happened. The full realization of everything that has occurred over the last month is daunting to say the least...

After 14 years together, 2 weeks before our 13 year anniversary, he left me. We had only spent 10 days together throughout the two months prior. While I was out of town for 5 days visiting my sick grandmother he moved out, then told me on the way home from the airport... I had no idea he was even considering such a thing. He has always said, "I will never leave you, if I was going to leave I would have done it a long time ago".

We bought a house 5 months ago and I might have to sell it at the end of the year when he gets back from deployment. He deploys in a month and for ONCE I can not wait for him to leave. I need to be away from him so I can figure out how to heal and move on. Although I know the kids will miss him, so I feel guilty for wanting him gone...

I am so angry and hurt... I had to watch my children cry when we told them the news... Daddy doesn't live here anymore and we are getting a divorce... However, unfortunately, they are used to him being gone all the time so at least it was an easy transition...


If you noticed my name changes from Mrs. Marine to Trisha Flener on Facebook and Twitter, this is why...