I have never understood the concept of the questions really. So many wives think "my husbands deploying so I have to up and leave and go home." And I'm not talking they go visit for a little while. They MOVE and go home to live for the entire deployment. WHY? They cant survive without their husbands, they cant be alone? It's ridiculous, and its a domino effect. It makes it harder on the few wives who stay because there is no one to bond with and your friends leave. It makes everyone want to leave. Not to mention it makes it impossible to put down roots anywhere living like that. Just because my husbands leaving doesn't mean I'm going to.